family time: climbing

this weekend was absolutely beautiful.

the weather was warm, the sun was shining.

the Huntsville Fall Fair was happening.

on saturday morning i returned from a short run

(i turned around a couple kms earlier than i was planning to)

i returned in time to have breakfast with my husband and kids.

we sat and discussed the plans for the day.

on my run i had an idea of what i wanted to do with the family.

the kids talked about playing lego. 

or with their stuffies.

the girl wanted to watch a movie: The Lion The Witch and the Wardrobe.

nothing was mentioned about the fall fair.

i'll admit, i was glad they had forgotten it was this weekend.

i didn't want to go that day.

finally i asked if anyone wanted to go climbing.

was i ever so happy when everyone liked the idea.

because i really wanted to go.

i am in need of a road trip for some climbing or bouldering, 

that's all i've been wanting to do these days.

it was so beautiful out that i just wanted to take the kids climbing.

we decided to go at lunch. 

since we park the car at the McDonalds parking lot we would have McD's before we set up our climb.

and when we got home we'd watch Narnia while we ate supper.

i listened to the kids talking about how they were going to make it to the top.

i love listening to their excitement about this time as a family.

we all hiked to the top and the kids got to see how to set the climb.

they even got to help with aspects of it.

my husband is a wonderful teacher.

then we climbed down.

and i got my camera out to enjoy capturing some memories as my husband was belayer.

they listened to instruction, 

they remembered: encouragement only!

my number one rule.

since they were sharing a harness there was an agreed on amount of tries before switching.

there was barely any nervousness.

they remembered how high they had climbed the last time we went, 

and were determined to get past that.

but the ultimate goal was to reach the top.

i was so proud as i watched my boy work his way higher...

and higher...

and higher...

he made it!

both kids listened so well to advice or encouragement.

they looked for the perfect places to put their feet and hands.

even when nervous they were eventually able to calm down and rethink the situation, or listen to our words.

i love being their parent.

i love watching them get past a fear and accomplish things they hoped to do.

i love having the opportunity of raising my kids with rock climbing as one of our activities.

I have so much fear, and love, when i'm climbing.

i learned to rock climb in my late teens-early twenties

but i have such a hard time trusting my own feet, 

or my belayer.

i need the rope as tight as possible.

if i don't have a great hand hold i have a hard time moving on.

my kids...

they encourage me so much.

i watch them, 

i listen to them, 

i admire them.

they love adventure.

the fear is there, but they trust us.

they know we're watching out for them, 

but allowing them the opportunity to figure out what they can do.

my kids know i'm scared of heights.

i admit that sometimes when i'm on a wall i cry.

so i understand when my little one is crying because she is afraid of slipping.

but they also know i love this activity.

i love the adventure.

they also know i try.

even when scared, i try.

i told my little one that when i'm frozen, on the wall of rock, i pray.

i ask God for the strength to continue, 

to get past the fear.

she calmed herself and slowly continued.

i love afternoons like these.

daddy and the girl hiked up there.
i belayed for the boy as he did the final climb up and out, and then i hiked back up after this pic.
love these three.

*we did go home and watch Narnia.

i also took the kids to the fall fair on sunday afternoon*

*all photos taken by me, 

with Gertie

not edited.

School Days *round 2*: Gr 1

age: 6 (7 in the new year)

year in school: 3

grade: 1

class: 1s only

here it is.

the year she is no longer in the Kindergarten rooms.

what an excited little girl we have.

i drove them to school this morning and as she and i walked into the school yard, hand in hand, i asked her where she wanted to go.

"mommy i can go there, or there, or even there" 

as she pointed around the school yard.

"last year i could only go there."

pointing to the kindergarten area.

so excited that she could use the whole yard, if she chose to.

when we prayed, the night before the first day, her school thinking was a little different than her brother.

she was nervous that she may not get the teacher she wanted.

but she was so excited to get to see friends she hadn't seen since June.

she's a people person.

completely.

it's all about the friends in the class.

the first day she came home and told me that the part that made her upset was that the bus went a different route after school.

but her fave part was that they had 3 recesses, and that she played with 3 friends all day.

she got the teacher she wanted.

so excited!

her grade one teacher is the same amazing woman that her brother had for SK and she had for JK.

we love her teacher so much.

(although i was excited with either grade 1 teacher - they're both stupendous teachers who adore their students)

gym and recess have been her favorite so far.

but yesterday she came home and told me she did some math, and it wasn't scary.

the switch from K to 1 is big.

but i believe she is ready for it.

she is excited to be a grade 1 girl now.

she has some good friends in her class.

her biggest issue is not with school but with after school.

the bus the kids ride has switched it's after school route.

instead of their school being the 3rd school on the route, it is now the first school on the route.

therefore, the bus is there earlier.

she gets so scared that she is going to miss it.

in fact there have been a couple days that her brother has not been there when the bus has been called so she runs from where she's waiting with her teacher and gets on the bus.

her brother arrives at the teacher and there's no sister there.

we've discussed it, 

but i haven't been sure how to get her to stay calm.

he's working his way from the top floor of the school sometimes as the bus is called.

he knows it will wait a little but his sister is too scared to realize that.

today i chatted with her teacher and we're going to try something intentional to help her.

i'll find out how it went when she gets home.

i love having open communication with their teachers.

other than bus stuff...

she loves grade 1!

i'm excited about this year, 

i'm hoping to volunteer as much as possible.

*when they first sat down for the together photo

there were a good few inches between them.

they were smiling for the camera.

right before i clicked the photo

her brother put his arm around her.

i paused as i watched them move right in together.

her smile grew so much more when he did that.

then i clicked the photo.

Look at her.

my big grade one girl!

School Days: Gr 3 *part 1*

age: 8

year in school: 5

grade: 3

class: 3/4 split

it's another school year.

here we are.

getting back to the routine.

the night before the first day of school i had an idea.

at supper i decided that we'd pray, as a family, for the school year.

i asked each kid something they were excited about and something they were nervous about.

my girl went first.

and then i said, 

"ok, who wants to pray for her?"

my boy.

he said 

"i'll pray for her mommy."

and he did.  

he prayed for her fears and her excitement.

straight and to the point, but he prayed for his sister.

then he shared his fear and excitement.

nervous about which teacher he'd be getting and if he'd like the teacher.

excited to go back to school to learn math.

my little girl offered to pray for her big brother.

they prayed for eachother, with such sincerity.

next morning.

school!

my boy got up so easily.

he was so excited to go to school for grade 3.

he knew the teacher i was hoping he'd get, 

but he also knew that if God wanted him with the other teacher than it'd be fine as well.

i drove him and his sister to school, after the 'first day' photos.

they chose their location for the together photo, and it melts my heart.

he loves his sister so much.

he put his arm around her as soon as i was about to take the photo.

off to school we drove.

when we got to the sidewalk on the outside of the yard fence we paused.

"do you want to stay with us or go see your friends?"

i asked, pretty sure i knew the answer.

he quietly said he wanted to see his friends.

we hugged.

just a quick hug.

when we are at school i know i'll get only quick hugs, on the outside of the fence.

and off he walked.

my big grade 3 boy.

i went in to the assembly with my girl to wait to see which teachers they'd get for the year.

and there was my boy, 

sitting on the floor talking with a couple friends.

friends he's known since JK.

he glanced my way once.

then the names began to get called for the different classes.

he sat listening, waiting.

his name was called for the teacher i wanted him with.

he has a male teacher again this year.

i love that he has a male teacher again this year.

he came home on the bus that first day and said he really liked his teacher.

and at supper we talked about good and not so good things at school.

he didn't have a not so good thing to say.

his good things were that he got to do math already.

and that he is getting to learn french this year.

he was so excited about that.

he still loves school.

he still loves learning.

he still loves his friends.

he still loves watching out for his sister at school.

the other day i asked him how his day was.

"mommy, i had a not so good part.

i was trying to do my work and C kept talking to me.

it made it hard to do my work."

seriously?

yep.

i'm excited to see how this school year goes for him.

he has grown in his confidence over this summer.

he is excited about this year.

i know that school is hard for a lot of kids.

it was a hard beginning to school for my boy, 

but i am thankful that he has truly grown into a love for being at school.

yay grade 3.

grade 3.
no, he said it's not 2+1.. just 3.

*photos taken by me, with Gertie.

not edited.

so proud of my husband

we went car-camping for the week of Aug 22-29.

two reasons we went.

first and foremost was to have family time doing something we love to do.

We love Killarney and everything about it.

Dan and i met there years ago.

we have car camped a few times.

we have backpacked and enjoyed the interior campsites.

we have canoed on some of the lakes.

*we have travelled into the village of Killarney and enjoyed world famous Fish and Chips 

and explored the lighthouse on Georgian Bay.*

it is a favorite location and it was wonderful to be back there.

This year we had another family with us for the week.

the kids loved having friends there with us, and so did we.

secondly, and the reason we chose Killarney Provincial Park,

was for my husband to run the La Cloche Silhouette Trail.

The trail is 78km in length.

the terrain is quite rugged and technical.

it is recommended to take 7-10 days if backpacking along it.

the trail begins and ends at the George Lake Campground which made it perfect for Dan to run the whole loop.

he planned to run it on Tuesday.

*others have run it, 

see bottom of this link & description*

he was going to run it clockwise.  

the beginning of the trail would be the easiest terrain.

the second half was going to be the hardest and steepest.

our friend Ed was planning to run the last half with Dan.

on Monday we had another family come up for 2 nights so we would have extra people on support team.

the plan:

• Dan would head out from the main trailhead at 6am.
• 4 of us would paddle from Bell Lake to David Lake.  
• meet Dan where the trail crosses the portage to boundary lake.
• Dan would refill his camelback with gatorade and snacks.
• Ed would run with Dan the rest of the way as the 3 of us paddled back to Bell Lake, and i head back to George lake campground and our other friends head home.
• meet dan and ed at end of trail with the kids.

Monday night Dan packed everything he needed for the run.

it was going to be a rainy day.

90% chance of rain.

we didn't doubt the possibility.

and the temperature was to be around 16*C

sleep did not come easy.

5:00am came early. 

it had rained all night long, but stopped shortly before 5.

we woke the kids up at 5:35 as they wanted to come to daddy's start.

over to the trailhead we walked in the dark.

headlamps guiding the way.

the campground was so quiet and still.

when we got to the trailhead we gathered together and prayed for dan.

he was to be running alone until we met up with him.

i cried.

i was nervous.

it was to be wet.

wet rocks, would not be easy.

i began the stopwatch on my phone as he headed across the bridge to begin the trail.

it was dark.

Rhonda would be hanging with the kids for the day as i got to be support crew.

support crew headed to Bell Lake.

one canoe.

4 people.

i wasn't necessary to be there except that i wasn't staying back at the campsite wondering how he was doing.

the paddle was wet.

the rain didn't let up.

it wasn't heavy at all but consistent.

on one portage we met with some people returning from a trip

we told them where we were going.

it was so encouraging.

the lady said she was so glad that she had met us.

that trail running a distance like that always seemed like an urban legend, but she had met us and my husband was doing just that.  

they were quite excited for him.

we arrived at the meet point.

he had run a 56k race in just under 6 hours.

he compared the first part to that, except he wasn't racing it, but it gave us a good earliest expectation.

so we waited.

6 and a half hours after he started out we saw him crest over the rock.

"i am so glad to see you guys."

he said as he ran down to where we were meeting.

brief chat.

bit of food.

change of shirt.

refill camelback.

the decision to not run up the side trail to the Silver peak was made.

so overcast and rainy.  they didn't need to head up there.

and off they headed.

if ed wasn't running with dan he probably would have finished when we met him.

he hurt.

he was tired.

it was only getting harder from there.

it had already been so difficult as he climbed the trail.

but with ed's excitement, even nervousness, they headed out together.

our canoe travelled back to Bell lake.

the rain slowed.

*we found out later ed and dan had re-debated heading to silver peak, because it cleared slightly.

the original decision stood and they continued on their way.*

when we got back to the car i headed back to our campsite.

i was so glad i had been there to see him, to encourage him, to support him.

now i didn't want to miss him at the end.

i met up with Rhonda and the kids and we headed to the final destination.

the kids biked and climbed on the rocks as we waited.

Rhonda and i watched the stopwatch and watched for them to arrive.

other people kept fooling us as they came to the end of the trail.

Rhonda and the kids climbed up to look around a little as i waited at the bottom just in case they came and i could stop the timer.

nothing.

the girls told many people why we were waiting there.

the girls made a sign out of acorns that said DAD!

they worked so hard on it.

i walked up to check out the top of that hill, 

hoping..

hoping to see them.

i turned to come back down and, as i neared the girls, Rhonda yelled

"i think i see them!"

i turned to see them coming over and through the trees.

i cheered, 

the kids and rhonda cheered.

our husbands had done it.

the girls showed them their sign on the ground.

i high five them each and rhonda stopped the timer as they crossed the end.

11hours and 26 minutes.

Dan had run the La Cloche Silhouette Backpacking Trail.

he did it!

thanks ed for being the last-half pacer and encouragement for him.

thanks rhonda for watching the kids so i could meet at the half way point.

thanks marshall family for the canoeing and crazy support.

thanks portage-ers and hikers who were excited for him.

thanks jen for praying on tuesday after my text to you.

thanks friends and family who encouraged and prayed.

we didn't tell many people, so most of you didn't know, but now you do.

 *photos by me with Gertie

*dark morning photo with Chester